This past week in class was pretty mellow. We played a get-to-know-you game, learned about first impressions, and learned about vulnerability.
The whole week really played around the idea of vulnerablility, how when people go out of their comfort zones and do something that isn't familiar it makes them vulnerable. When we played the get-to-know-you game, there was an un-even amount of cards on the ground and the class had to stand by one and someone had to be in the middle and say who they were and what they liked (Hi I'm Ariel and I like the color yellow) and then the people who also like yellow had to move to a different card but someone would be left in the middle. Often, it was the same person, but no one wanted to be in the middle for the fun of it. It made them vulnerable 'cuz the idea is to get out of it and everyone's attention off of you. I personally liked the game and I think I'll use it in my snowball small group when the time comes : )
They say first impressions are very important; they are your first judgement of people you probably have never met before and they usually stick. One activity we did in class was my teacher wrote different adjectives (both good and bad) on the board and had three people come and sit up front, then had them stand up, say their name, and spin around. The class was then asked to pick some of the adjectives that they thought suited the person. Since many of us never met these people, they were based solely off looks. In this case, the three people were vulnerable to our opinion of how they look on the outside, not how they are on the inside. In a sense, if someone picked one of the negative adjectives, I don't think that it would really matter to the people because they don't know the class too well and vice verse for the class.
In my everyday life, I don't consider myself very vulnerable because I know what's going to happen that day (give or take); I have a routine and I follow it. The thing is though, say when I do mess up, I do my best to try and make it not show. Vulnerability isn't my best color. People's general first impression of me is that I'm put-together and I seem nice (I hope it's that). But when we're trying something new or have to have a heart-to-heart with someone, we are all vulnerable because we don't know what the outcome will be.
'Tis all,
Ariel